Hollflagator’s Weblog

It is so hard to break a friendship when you have been friends with someone for so long, but I realized that if I did not get away from the “friends”  I spoke about earlier that I would either get into so much trouble or completely self destruct from being around them and falling into the traps that they did, especially the one girl.  She got really messed up in drugs since we have graduated and is now having seizure problems from my understanding, and you know I feel horrible that I really don’t have much, none really, sympathy for her.  I just got to the point so many years ago that she never cared about me or my feelings and I just cut myself off.  It is so hard but no one said life was easy did they……………. and it really sucks.

How do you know if you have chosen the right friends and when to make a decision on whether or not to stay in the friendship?  It is so hard if you ever have to come to a point in your life that you have to make that choice.  When you have known and been through so much with someone it is hard to let them go but if they become “toxic”  what do you do?  I have a person I have known since kindergarten (I am almost 30 now) and we were friends all the way through school and even some after, but she has another friend who is just self-centered, stuck-up, in to drugs, spreads rumors, all kinds of other things.  It was hard but I had to make the decision that if the person I had known all my life was even speaking to this other person I could not have her in my life in any way.  But that was just me and my decision.   Anyone else…………………..